MemexAI vs Zep for self-hosted AI memory.
Zep and Graphiti are strong when you want temporal graph memory, relationship-aware recall, and a benchmarked graph retrieval story. MemexAI is the simpler path when your product needs file-level operator control, revision history, access logs, and a Postgres-native deployment.
Zep is graph-oriented memory. MemexAI is an inspectable memory workspace.
MemexAI
Run the service with Docker or use direct Postgres mode. Memory lives as scoped files that agents and humans can both read.
Zep
Zep's paper frames Graphiti as a temporally-aware knowledge graph that synthesizes conversational and business data while maintaining historical relationships. That is powerful when the relationships are the product; it is heavier than a direct memory record your team can open and patch.
Graphs help when relationships are the product. Files help when the record must be obvious.
Choose MemexAI when the memory record needs to be simple enough for your team to debug.
Zep and MemexAI optimize for different operating models.
Zep's public technical story is graph memory. MemexAI's story is memory that can be opened like a file, corrected like product data, and audited through revisions, access logs, and time-travel snapshots.